This key is important in assisting you to become unconditionally responsible with your life. If there is something you are not liking in your life, and you consistently claim that you don’t want it and are doing all you can to change it, well, if whatever it is is still occurring, then there is some belief inside of you that has created this situation for you to experience, for whatever reason. A good example is when someone says they hate their current living conditions and the constant struggle for money in their lives. When you look at this situation unconditionally and responsibly, then you could say that there is a reason that this person is living in constant struggle for money in their lives. It is because for some reason, that is their highest priority to experience struggle in their lives. It doesn’t make it right or wrong, it just is what it is. When that individual realizes that they are just experiencing their highest priority, and not judging their highest priority (such as calling themselves stupid, or worthless, etc.), they can then make the decision to do something different because they are now conscious of what they are doing and are willing to do something about it.

Another important thing to remember is to not judge your current situation, but accept it as perfect in the moment and know that all things are temporary (this too shall pass). In judgment, you cannot move into a new way of being because your judgment locks you into your current state of being. Be in the joy of now and set yourself free.