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    When the Act of Forgiveness Can Be Harmful to Self and Others When the Act of Forgiveness Can Be Harmful to Self and Others

    When the Act of Forgiveness Can Be Harmful to Self and Others

When the Act of Forgiveness Can Be Harmful to Self and Others

This article comes in light of the many incidences where a member of the Black community is harmed/assaulted/killed and then they or their survivors immediately forgive the perpetrator of the incident.  Lately, these actions have begun to come under criticism by the Black community, because not only are other communities not asked to do the same, automatic forgiveness is also not particularly empowering.  To the Black community, these actions  illustrated a pattern that Black Americans are supposed to automatically take a “no harm no foul” attitude no matter how much harm is done to them.

 

There have been many explanations of the reason our community has this kind of automatic forgiving response when it experiences harm and trauma. Dr Francis Cress Welsing had a very detailed synopsis for this behavior (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-VGlNTfSgM) As we have seen, this behavior had not changed anything, or has lessened systematic white supremacy’s effect on the lives of the Black community.

 

The following explains why the behavior of blind forgiveness will never affect systematic white supremacy, and it actually brings more harm to the community and ultimately specific steps the Black community can take to change this behavior, and to stop and eventually reverse the cycle of harm and begin to address healing the mental health issues.

 

One of the aspects of blind automatic forgiveness that hasn’t truly been discussed are the holistic influences that affect everything from our thoughts, words and actions. This widespread influence comes from our subconscious and ultimately our DNA, other individuals and the environment. What we do and the actions we take can affect our energy/influences, which affects our future experiences. I am sharing this concept so you can understand how our actions keep us on the gerbil wheel of oppression that we can’t seem to break from.

 

So how can forgiveness […]

By |May 7th, 2017|Blog|0 Comments

Kid Cudi’s Public Rehab Checkin Due To Depression – Healing the Suppressed Anger

When Kid Cudi announced his checkin to a rehab center for depression and suicidal thoughts, it brought a tidal wave of other black men coming forward and sharing their experiences of depression and anxiety under the hashtag #YouGoodMan.

 

 

While these are just a sample of some of the tweets, there all have a common theme at their core and that theme is:

1) Black men have suppressed an incredible amount of anger over their lives, and have probably had some passed down to them as well. None of this anger has been addressed and has finally come out in the form of Depression & Anxiety.

2) Black men have been socialized by the […]

By |October 6th, 2016|Blog|0 Comments

S/He Loves Me – Change from the Inside Out

A review of the 3 CD audio product S/He Loves Me.

she loves me croppedS/He Loves Me is separated into the 3 major functions it addresses and is each function is addressed in a CD for a total of 165 minutes of pure consciousness expanding experiences.

The 1st CD is the story of the authors journey coming from a place of fear, anger and ignorance as to why her life is always in a constant turmoil.  In the CD, the author describes how she has always followed the teachings of society and her church and nothing seemed to work for her.  She would get ahead in one area of her life, but it was always  through struggle and at times, those changes never seemed to stay permanent.  She shares her story in such a way that the listener can really relate to her struggles, as they address most of the struggles that we have as human beings, and as members in this society.  She addresses issues and problems that we all deal with no matter what level of the socioeconomic latter we belong to, or no matter what cultural group we belong to, because she addresses the basic human struggle.  In part of the CD, she asks herself “If I am doing everything I have been told to do, why is my life still in turmoil and struggle?  What am I missing?”

The 2nd CD provides the answers.  In a voice that projects ultimate acceptance and love, the answers come forth in a manner that is clear and concise.  Some of these answers may not be understood completely, however the more one listens to this CD, the more one will […]

By |September 4th, 2016|Reviews|0 Comments
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    The Life You Would Love To Live Is Just a Thought Away The Life You Would Love To Live Is Just a Thought Away

    The Life You Would Love To Live Is Just a Thought Away

The Life You Would Love To Live Is Just a Thought Away

What Kind Of Reality Do You Truly WANT To Experience?

I was recently in a conversation with several people who had their own ideas of how the world should be (don’t we all have our own opinions on that topic?)  The thing that struck me was no matter how opposite the ideas were, everyone focused on what upset them the most instead of what they wanted.  I communicated with there was a way to approach having what you wanted with much less struggle.  This is what the basis of this article is about and I will describe it from the point of view of energy, as we are energetic beings and are affected by energy.

1)  There are only 2 states of being in which we can exist Love or Anger

Most of us see Love or Anger as an emotion, however it is really a state of being.  These states of being produce numerous thoughts, which create the emotions within us, which affect how we interact with the world and how the world interacts with us.  For instance, those that are in the state of being of Love, feel emotions of feeling joy, happiness, contentment, confidence, well-being, empathy, altruism, selflessness, gratitude & optimism among others.  Those that are in the state of being of Anger feel emotions of rage, frustration, jealousy, helplessness, fear, depression, hate, selfishness, judgement, shame, guilt, blame & vengeance among others.

Why is it important to not only understand this, but to know where you are throughout the day?  Because how you choose to exist (Love or Anger) will determine what you are thinking and ultimately projecting out into he world around you and how others & situations respond to you.  Science has been able […]

By |August 15th, 2016|Blog|0 Comments

Change – Foe or Friend – How Do I Handle Change? Here Is A Simple How

the more you fight changeChange is a natural human process and is ever evolving. We change as we make new decisions. We also find that we are required to change as our situations and relationships change. Sometimes we hope others will change in ways we wish or expect and are disappointed when they don’t. We change as we passion new and improved ways to live happy, fulfilled, balanced and fruitful lives. From a passion to be more we invite change into our lives. When life appears to unravel unexpectedly it is because we are opposing and wanting to control the change in our mood by attempting to blame and judge what we misperceive and believe to be what triggered the unwelcome change.
“You cannot have an outside fix to and inside problem.” – Veronique
The need to adapt to changing circumstances can, at times, leave us feeling helpless, powerless, afraid, even hurt if we misperceive our circumstances that brought the change into existence. At the root of all discord, sometimes buried, yet still existing is unresolved misperceptions that create angry/fear based/hurt filled responses. If highly charged negative emotions are left unresolved they build upon themselves. Our minds then repeat thoughts in our head where negative beliefs build and continue to fester even more misunderstandings that leads us to feel that ‘change’ is a foe instead of a friend.
When one fully allows the situation that contained the ‘change’ in how we were feeling or our circumstances — without judgment, blame, guilt, or shame, — and instead we look for the purpose and good in what the […]

By |March 1st, 2016|Blog|0 Comments

The Benefits of Having Commitment to Yourself

When you consistently live through the integrity of keeping to yourself, you are empowered through your gifts which enables you to live your birthrights just as consistently. You can have ‘exactly’ what you asked for, you just can not manipulate through any means from where, how or from whom you will receive what you need, want or desire. Only God knows the best means, way or with whom your life can best unfold so your heart and soul can empower you to use your God-given gifts. When you listen through an open heart and mind your intuition will guide you to right actions. Through right actions you will receive your birthrights which ultimately is for the highest good of all. What lessens or fades your ability to consistently use your gifts in order to fully live your birthrights is when you live through any level of anger /fear or upsets blatant or repressed (we will expand on this subject later in this material).  To regain the full use of these gifts you must start with trusting yourself. Even if you feel your trust and faith have been greatly diminished or lacking, realize there is some part of you that is already trusting in yourself because you were guided to this material. Somehow you knew there was ‘something’ within these pages that is especially here for you.

So just relax and enjoy the ride. The purpose of this material is to provide you step-by-step guidance in HOW to reclaim the full and absolute power within your God-given gifts. Before they can be fully restored and completely effective in supporting you in receiving your birthrights, which in turn will support you in reaching goals and aspirations […]

By |August 10th, 2015|Articles|0 Comments
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    The First Step in Changing Anything is Commitment The First Step in Changing Anything is Commitment

    The First Step in Changing Anything is Commitment

The First Step in Changing Anything is Commitment

OK, so how many personal, or business development weekends or seminars have we attended only to have absolutely nothing change in our lives, whereas others who have attended the exact same class was able to create major life changes for themselves?  I’m raising my hand here.  I have attended many of these things only to experience minor/if any changes in my life where others were able to create quite an improvement in their lives.

In fact one seminar I attended dealing with some aspect of real estate, was quite pricey and I had vowed to myself I would at least make my money back in this seminar.  Not only did this not happen, but one of the instructors who became an instructor after only 2 years after taking the same course, eventually left the realestate business when the market dictated it, and moved into my field only to soar past me after only being in my field for 1 year.

That is a pretty humbling experience, yet one that can also be a very good visual of what it is that he was doing and I wasn’t.  I would say it wasn’t skill or intelligence.  I would say it was commitment.  He was more committed to being successful and I was more committed to staying in my comfort zone and being arrogant enough to convince myself that it was enough to achieve the results I wanted to have.

The important thing is that in each and every moment we are committed to something.  If what we are committed to isn’t creating the results we want, then it is insanity to stay committed to that.  In the moment we realize that what we have committed to isn’t giving us what we […]

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    Being Arrogant Really Comes from Fear Being Arrogant Really Comes from Fear

    Being Arrogant Really Comes from Fear

Being Arrogant Really Comes from Fear

From definition of being arrogant in the British Dictionary:

1. having or showing an exaggerated opinion of one’s own importance,merit, ability, etc;
2. conceited;
3. overbearingly proud.

So let’s look at these terms.  I bring them up because during my journey and growth, I have had to deal with my own high level of arrogance, which has really gotten in the way of me reconnecting with the true Love of who I am.  Why is this? Based on the concept that no 2 things can occupy the same space at the same time, in each and every moment, you are either being Love or Anger/Fear.   Love creates abundance and Fear creates loss/lack and illness.

So that being said, when I am being arrogant, I am truly being in anger/fear because of the following:

1) In having an exaggerated opinion of my own importance, I am not being in the love of all things.  I am in separation instead of oneness.  In oneness, which can only be entered when one is being Love, everyone is important and everyone has the same level of importance…. no one is more important than the other.  Oneness sees there is a different role that everyone plays, however each role has its purpose.  Oneness doesn’t place its own role as being any more special because to do so would be to also dishonor a part of itself as well…. and Oneness honors all (form or on this topic see the self improvement material at VeroniqueInc.com).

So I believe, arrogance is the other side of the coin of having a low esteem of self.  Arrogance is a means of covering up any misguided perceptions of one’s own worth, for whatever reason.  Sometimes, it can be from someone not feeling deserving of love, they believe they are less than […]

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    My First Experience With Energy Genesis My First Experience With Energy Genesis

    My First Experience With Energy Genesis

My First Experience With Energy Genesis

I have done Life Vessel before many years ago and last week,  I had my first session with Energy Genesis.  What is Energy Genesis?  Well it is a new technology that uses light and sound vibration to support your cells back into their unadulterated state of being (kind of like the technology used by Life Vessel, only differently and not really the same technology).  It is kind of interesting because I was going to say that it supports your cells back into they way they were when you were first born, however, now that I think about it, even in the womb, we are subjected to all kinds of environmental, chemical, and vibrational toxins, do we ever experience an unadulterated state of being?

Well, at any rate, as I said, last week I got a session and right after the session, I was feeling really, really good.  Like I had some laughing gas or something.  That state of extreme well being lasted for several hours.  For the rest of the day, I was quite creative and thinking of solutions to situations that had never come to me before.  The next day I noticed that I was experiencing some interesting detox symptoms which included everything from a thick sinus discharge (Yummy, Yum, Yum!!!), to runny nose (different from the more obnoxious sinus discharge), to sneezing and other types of detox symptoms.  I won’t go too graphic on you because this is a family show and you also might be doing the “reading the Internet and eating multi-tasking thing.”

At any rate, one of the things I have to do after this session is to really drink a lot of water for a week afterward to assist the detoxing process.  Although […]

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    My Journey Into Living My Love My Journey Into Living My Love

    My Journey Into Living My Love

My Journey Into Living My Love

This is my journal on my experiences into living a life where I am chosing Love over choosing Anger/Fear.  For all of my life I have chosen anger/fear to respond through.  One thing I have learned in my journeys and experiences is that anger is the source of fear.  There are many different forms of anger and the one that I was really into was vengence and revenge.  It took the most subtlest of forms yet it created the most major of obstacles.

As I discuss my journey on this blog, I will share everything I have experienced and maybe it can support someone else in seeing what they are doing that is holding themselves back and keeping themselves down from truly living the life they want to live.

My journey began almost 20 years ago, however, it wasn’t until about 8 years ago that I began to truly see the importance of the subtleties.  That was because of working with a Godsend of a person and using the material The Choice Is Mine.  Until then, I was only able to make surface changes and was not able to truly get to the core of what was holding me back because I didn’t know how to until I was introduced to this material.

The only reason why it took 8 years was because of me, and my stubbornness of wanting to do it my way, no matter the fact that I was given the tools for the formula for success.  I was so deep into the lifelong patterns of revenge and vengeance, that I was not able to let go of doing it my way for the longest of times.  Sure I had put myself in the […]