I had a conversation with someone earlier today about living our lives and some of the things that we have experienced in our past. One of the things that she was stating was that the reason why she was struggling for the past 5 years was because she wasn’t living her life. It was a struggle for her because she had to spend so much time in her head trying to figure out the things she needed to do to live a life that wasn’t hers. That got me to thinking…. Am I living my life? I then asked myself, if there was no societal or parental pressure, what would I be doing with my life? I had to answer truthfully, that it wouldn’t be what I am doing now. I realized that is why I am struggling in my life is because I am also spending a lot of time in my head trying to “figure it out”.  The things that come easily, naturally and joyfully to me aren’t the things I am doing to make a living, or expressing myself.  Because I can pick up things quickly, and my IQ is on the high side of average, I am able to make it work.  And for me, I think  that was the thing that took it so long for me to realize that I wasn’t living my life, because I was making what I had “work”.

That is the crux of things.  Is what you are doing now making the life you are living “work”? You are able to be somewhat successful, but you have to put a lot of effort into it.  You have fallen for that old puritan fable of “you have to work hard in order to get anywhere in life”.  With that belief, it’s no wonder why the majority of us are not living the lives we are supposed to be living.  We believe things are supposed to be difficult and a struggle, and we have fallen into the “comfort zone” of what we are supposed to do instead of stepping outside of that “comfort zone” and turning away from what we are told we should be doing and living our joy instead.

This is one of the reasons why most of the Law of Attraction, and Manifestation books and courses tell us why the emotion is so important, especially being in the joy of loving what you do is so important to create the life you want.  If you are not in the joy of what you are doing, then you are not living your life, but you are living another’s life.  By living another’s life, the energy that you could put into creating the life you want is not going into creating the life you want, but struggling to “figure it out”.

It’s like your in-born method of transportation is a plane, but you don’t use one because someone told you you should use a car to get to your destination, and so you use a car to get to where you want to go.  Since you don’t know how to drive a car, you do the best you can and you put the car in neutral and push it towards your destination.   Maybe one day, someone comes along and tells you about releasing the emergency brake… Ok, makes it easier.  Then later someone comes along and tells you about starting the engine and pressing on the gas.  Then later someone shows you how to steer, then use the brakes…. etc.  This is all if you are aware and open enough to allow someone else to instruct you.  Meanwhile, those that are using their natural talents to fly the plane are probably at their destination already, and boy did they have a fun time looking at the scenery and enjoying the trip because they just knew how to fly that plane!

This also brings me to the point of personal development or self improvement material.  I have read a lot of these types of books and taken many courses of all types in the past and the ones that I have taken that have given me the complete structure of this is how I do it, where the ones that were the least successful for me.  Am I trying to live someone else’s life in this case as well?  What worked for them may not work for me.  The courses that gave me the building block tools, and then a system for HOW I can use them in my own way that is most supportive of me, were the courses that I had the most success with.  Usually these types of courses incorporate using your own intuition as that is what is the best guidance system in determining  how it works best for you.

Please share your feedback on any experiences you’ve had.

Tags:   living your truth, personal development

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In this episode of the show, we cover the subtleties that we overlook when we are using the law of attraction and how these subtleties really make the difference if we want to manifest quickly.  In this episode, we cover the intuition and the role it plays in being able to live a life of grace, ease and abundance.

This radio show covers another of the powerful keys that turn conditional thoughts into unconditional thoughts.  “Remember What I Have Forgotten Within Myself and I Have No Life Lessons”.  This key is about getting back to allowing your intuition to guide you instead of your mind.  Our mind was never supposed to figure out how we should live to get what it is that we want.  It is our intuition that allows us to go through life through grace, ease and abundance.

Join us on June 10th for a free teleseminar on this same subject.  You will be able to ask questions and get answers.

Register this teleseminar on intuition here 

Tags: podcast, abundance, law of attraction

This weeks radio show blog is a powerful one in the sense that it gives you the basic understanding of what it is that makes us tick….  How we perceive our world.  The perception of love is our belief of what we need to do in order to give or receive love, however untrue it is, this is what causes us to operate in the way that we operate.  It is very powerful and can explain why some people seem to easily allow abundance into their lives while others struggle endlessly.  The good news is that you can break free of your perception of love and learn to live differently!  Listen in on the show for more!

Tags: law of attraction,   abundance, personal development, self improvement

The missing piece to attracting what you want in your life is the understanding that we live in a physical world and that requires physical action - or doing.  When we receive an ah-ha, or an insight, what do we do with that?  Do we just think about it?  Do we process it over and over again?  Or do we DO something about it?  What action do we take with that ah-ha or insight that we have?  What do we begin doing differently at that moment?

One way to approach it is to accept what it is you have done up to this point has given you what you currently have.   Don’t judge yourself for it.  Stand in the unconditional responsibility that you are receiving exactly what you want, whether it is conscious or not.  If it is NOT what you consciously want, determine what you are getting out of the situation and once you understand that piece, you can choose differently.  When you choose differently, you do differently.

It is in the doing that gives us what we want, but we can’t get that until we know what it is that we need to do differently.  We can’t know what to do differently until we understand what it is that we are getting out of the current situation we are in.  Ask yourself the questions and allow your intuition to give you the answers.  Don’t judge the answers you get, and then decide if you really want change in your life or you are actually satisfied with what you are receiving from your current situation.  Whatever you decide, stand in the knowing that this is what you have created for yourself, and accept the responsibility of what you have created.   The choice is then yours.

In this radio podcast, we discuss the answer to the question:

I have read all of the books, listened to all the gurus and done all of the affirmations and incantations in the world and I have only experienced small changes in my life, not the quantum leap I was  looking for.  I don’t feel like I am blocking myself, but I must be blocking myself because there is really no other reason… The question is, How do I go about finding out why I can’t attract my desired life?

This is a very eye opening answer and one that will get you thinking differently.

Tags: abundance, self improvement, radio, personal development

In last night’s teleseminar, we had a question that basically said “what is keeping me from having what I want even though I am doing all of the things the books tell me to do, such as affirmations, positive thoughts, etc.?”

That is was a powerful question for me because I have myself wanted to achieve something and went through all of the  usual “excercises” and I didn’t receive anything that I had “written down”.  So I knew something else was at work, I just didn’t know what it was.

The call went over a few concepts that keep us from having what we want that were very powerful.  The first one was to look at what you currently have.  If you are currently getting something out of the situation and you have what you want, then your subconscious mind doesn’t support you because it sees you as already having what you ask for.  We are always living our highest priority subconsciously, so if we have obtained a goal, then it is up to us to change that goal at our subconscious level so we can allow our subconscious to work for us.

Tags: abundance, personal development, teleseminar, law of attraction

Another concept that we discussed that could keep us from having what we want was “do we passion what it is that we want?”  Is emotion involved or is it purely an intellectual exercise?  You cannot create on intellectual thought alone, it must be fueled by passion.  Passion is the ingredient that brings our dreams to life, and it is the gateway to opening ourselves up to live our lives in joy as we experience our journey in each and every moment.  It is the journey that is the key to receiving what we want, not the waiting for the end result.

There was much more that was said, this is just a recap…

Maybe we’ll catch you on the next call!

You are in for a special treat on Tuesday May 13th!

We will be covering the distinction between being your True Self and the responsibility of that True Self. How many times have we said to ourselves “if only I didn’t have to do THIS, I would be doing THAT”, or “If I could do it all over again, I would really be doing what I love, which is …..”? In this teleseminar, we will be discussing how actually living true to who you are can open up doors and move beyond existing through ‘fear’ and living through ‘love’.

Join us this Tuesday at 8:00pm Eastern Time on the teleseminar where you will find out how we can live the life of our dreams by creating what we know and love, instead of what we think we should do out of any imagined obligation.

Do you have a specific question about how to move into living your true self, or how your living your true self can open you up to life’s abundance?

You can ask your questions when you register and it may be answered during the teleseminar. There will be a few lucky individuals who will get their questions answered during this live event.

Submit your question and register for this powerful personal transformation seminar .

Tags: personal transformation, self improvement seminar, abundance

This clip is from an article by Wendy Garrett and her comments on The Moses Code. She made a comment about what exists with us and I would like to expand on that.

clipped from www.americanchronicle.com As as an Intuitive, I call it birthing. You cannot create that which does not exist within you. That statement levels no judgment. We create all that we can envision and all that which we can elevate our ability to fathom; and from that ensuing creation and mis-creation, we all evolve.

I would like to take the previous comment and expand on it by also saying that as the beings we are described in the movie, we are all things so we can create all things. When we are in our unconditional and responsible space, we are not in our own way and we can create anything. We are the sum of our creations, both conditional and unconditional. I would also like to add that we also cannot see in another what doesn’t exist within ourselves. When we react to a situation, or to something that someone else said or did, we are actually reacting to that thing that lives within ourselves that we are judging.

This last episode dealing with the ego goes into bringing it back into balance and how a balanced ego can allow us to thrive in todays economy. No matter what is going on, a balanced ego will allow us to weather the storm of any economic troubles that may be occurring in the moment.

Tags: economy - ego - abundance - law of attraction